If the question "what am I for?" has no clear answer right now — is that absence painful, neutral, or quietly familiar? What does the absence feel like?
What would "orienting your life toward God" change in the most practical terms, given where you are today? Not in the abstract, but in the specific conditions of your actual life.
What do you currently spend most of your attention on? Does that reflect what you actually value, or is there a gap between what you care about and where your attention goes?
What would it mean to hold earthly goals lightly — neither abandoning them nor being controlled by them? Can you hold a goal and simultaneously be unattached to whether it is achieved?
If purpose is not a destination but an orientation — a direction rather than a fixed point — what small reorientation is available to you today, without any dramatic change?